The Secret Life of Bees by sue Monk Kidd

The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd


"You have to find a mother inside yourself.  We all do.  Even if we already have a mother, we still have to find this part of ourselves inside." --August Boatwright, The Secret Life of Bees.

Quite a time after I started the book, I have restarted and finally finished this novel.  This story is described as a sort of coming of age novel but I found it to be so much more than that...probably because of my own experiences and perspective.  As you know, everyone brings his or her own perspective to each book one reads, so for me, reading a book about a motherless girl caused me to connect with Lily in so many ways.  She was searching for something and she found it where no white man thought she should find it at the time in a house full of "colored women."  I can relate to that as well as my family didn't agree with some of my friends as I was growing up.  I've seen a world of difference since my childhood days.  As August says, I have found the mother inside myself, as I'm breaking the cycle and have become a foster parent but I think she meant that you have to find that part of you that you can rely on to take care of you.  I think I'm still searching for that, and we probably all search for that our whole lives.

I think if I didn't have the perspective that I do have, this would have been an easy read.  It has some seriously traumatic events but I have to say I didn't cry.  I probably would have cried if I hadn't seen the movie though as I was expecting these things.  I don't typically rate movies but I definitely give Dakota Fanning, Queen Latifah and the other main characters (sorry, I am not going to look up names) kudos for bringing life to these characters.  I am glad that I read this book.  It's probably not one that I will read over and over.  I may read it again someday ten years from now but it was a good story, I'm glad I read it, now I can move on with the next story if that makes sense.  I think because it's filled with so much emotion...it's a heavy story to lay on your heart.

I give this book 4 out of 5 stars. 

Happy Reading!

Because of Winn-Dixie (Children's book) by Kate DiCamillo

Because of Winn-Dixie by Kate DiCamillo

This is a book for the whole family...a great read aloud book.  I was interested in this book because it is one of my favorite family films.  Great actors that play fabulous characters, a very funny dog...and a heart warming story.  And as everyone knows, many a favortie film is based on a truly fabulous book.  So I had purchased this book in hopes of reading it aloud to my children as it's a chapter book.

Well as it happens...my 7 year old has ADHD and cannot sit through even one page of a chapter book at bedtime (the meds wear off by then) and my other kids are too old (12 & 16)...but since I had started reading to the 7 year old...I was hooked and had to finish.  So Saturday afternoon I took an hour or so and read Because of Winn-Dixie.  This is going to be a longer post because I believe there are no coincidences in this world and there were many things that came together around the reading of this book.   First of all, it was the weekend after Mother's Day which this year was a bit hard for me.  I don't have a relationship with my biological Mom...I haven't lived with her steadily since I was 11 years old.  She, when I was about 13, decided to move to Florida with her boyfriend at the time, and I didn't see her for years.  She has a really hard time putting her kids first...she always has.

I do have a fabulous stepmom who I love dearly and usually Mother's Day doesn't bother me at all but for some reason this year it made me sad.  I'm also a foster mom and have two kids that I may be adopting but there's a lot going on in the world of foster care and adoption subsidies which may make it hard for that to happen, not to mention my seven year old foster daughter has many behavioral issues which reared their ugly heads on Mother's day causing me to have to leave a BBQ earlier than I would have liked.  My older boys who typically get helpful on Mother's Day weren't being very helpful either, and I was feeling a bit...well okay, I was downright crabby.  So I turned on the TV to watch movies and it being Mother's Day, The Secret Life of Bees was on.

Because of my own abandonment issues, I could totally relate to the child in this movie so I watched it.  Then I realized I had started the book a long time ago and never finished it.  I believe I even mentioned it in this blog but it has never been reviewed.  So this past week I picked it up again after finishing Witch & Wizard.  I started from the beginning as I didn't remember much.  I cannot believe the similarities in the stories...one being a children's book and the other an adult story.  So I'm going to review Winn Dixie here and I'm not going to pick up another book till I finish The Secret Life of Bees as I believe these two should be reviewed right next to each other.  So here goes my Winn-Dixie review.

The characters are so loveable in this story...they are well developed and each so in need of others from the start.  Of course, not one of them realizes as they are all so lost in their own troubles.  And sometimes when we are lost in ourselves, it takes much more than people to help us find our way...in this story, it's a zany dog and a strange piece of candy that brings these folks together (yes, I just said folks).  Because this is a children's book, these people are brought together literally at a party, and even though the story doesn't go beyond the party, you know that everything is going to be better for all involved, including the dog.  The story is of  a little girl, a preacher's daughter, living in a new town where she has no friends as of yet.  Her mother had abandoned both her and her Dad when she was little and she didn't remember much of her.  She tries to get info out of her Dad but he is so lost in his sorrow that he doesn't like to talk about her not realizing how much more he is hurting his daughter by not sharing his grief with her.

I would love to get a child's perspective of this story so if anyone reads this blog and then their child reads the story, please send me an email or comment.  I would love to know what he or she thought.  There are many appealing qualities to a child...the animals, a bit of mystery surrounding each of the characters.  But at the same time there are some great messages for adults.  Gloria Dump's tree, Opal's need to hear about her mother and to know about her father's grief, Amanda's reason for having a pinched up face, Otis' need for and yet fear of playing music and more.

I do not have to separate this book out into an adult and child rating as I think it's great for both.  Read it together and talk about it.

I loved this book and the Critical Librarian gives this book 5 out of 5 stars.   I highly recommend it, and if you'd like...click the link above in this post and purchase it from Amazon.com!

Happy Reading!

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Karen

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Witch & Wizard, James Patterson (and Gabrielle Charbonnet)

This was an easy, fun read.  I found it in Walmart's book section and even though I told myself I would not purchase anymore books until I got rid of some, I allowed myself to purchase this book and the new Charlaine Harris (HBO's TrueBlood series) book because it was my birthday week (any excuse I can find..lol).  I had heard about this book but couldn't remember what I had heard nor where I had heard it...and as you can see from my other book interests...well witches and wizards (and vampires) are my thing.  So I picked it up.  I read this book in about four or five days...VERY easy book to read.  This book is about a brother and sister who find out they are a wizard and a witch.  How they find out is very quick...and how they learn is kind of odd...things suddenly start happening to them. 

This book sort of starts off in the middle of HUGE changes to the world, and it left me with a lot of questions.  Why didn't the kids know they were in trouble...the parents would have known what was happening in the world of government...why weren't they preparing their kids before the night on which our story starts?  And some of it...well, the kids should have been aware of such huge changes to law and government.  Okay as a teenager I wasn't aware of much political, but there were huge things that happened while I was a teen.  Reagan being shot, Space Shuttle Challenger exploding during launch, Satan taking over as head of the country...these are things I was or would have been aware of in my teen years.  So I'm confused as to why these kids were so in the dark about what was happening.

Also, I think more history would have helped.  Whit had a relationship with a girl...I would have liked to have known more about this relationship so I could have felt more emotion for him as he sort of loses the ability to have this relationship with this girl.  I don't want to give away too much...but I would have liked to have felt sad about that but I wasn't involved enough in their past to feel for them.

Because I bought this in Walmart, there isn't much of a separation between teen/tween books and adult books, and I initially thought this book was geared towards adults...the author being Patterson, the cover, etc.  After reading a chapter or two, I think it is geared more toward early teens.  I don't have an issue with that of course being an avid Harry Potter and Twilight fan...but even those read a bit more maturely than this book.  I think this one was a bit younger.  As I am currently reading Winn Dixie and will be reviewing that book soon, I am not saying I wouldn't have read it had I known it was geared for teens.  There is at least one more book, and possibly more, I haven't looked into this as of yet so I believe I'm caught in yet another series (eeeeeeeeeek not another series!!!!!), and yes, I will read the next one.   I am intrigued enough to want to find out what happens to our young hero and heroine, Whit and Wisty.

So it was missing some information and some history about relationships and family.  I know sometimes reading a teen book from an adult view...well the teens might not feel like those things are missing at all so I don't want to take too much away from the book rating for that.  I tend to ask questions and don't like it when there isn't enough explanation.  I've been told before to use my imagination, and I do to a certain extent...but I don't want to write the story...know what I'm saying?

I did like that the point of view varied.  One chapter would be from Whit's point of view and the next might be from Whit again or it might be from Wisty's point of view.  That was interesting as there was some exciting scenes that were fun to see from both sides...the person seeing and the person experiencing the "event."  Again, don't want to give too much away but just remember FIRE if you do read the book.

Okay...so rating...this is a hard one.

 I think your tween/teen would like it if they like the idea of suddenly finding out he or she is a witch or wizard...and no, this isn't like Harry Potter where these are unloved orphan children.  They have parents and a loving home...but they find out as they are getting into a messy situation...more like take on the world, save the world, save your parents type of heroes.  Wait, I have an idea...for a teen, I would rate this book 4 stars.  I definitely think the teens would like it...but I think even the teens would have some questions (please let me know if anyone out there has a teen that reads this and has an opinion...would LOVE to hear it).

Adult rating...2.5 stars.  Wow, that hurts to say that.  I hate not LOVING a book but I think more information would have made me absolutely LOVE it.  I'm hoping the next one gets better now that I know more. 

I like the points of view changes, I like the magic, I like the villains...The One who is The One seems interesting and I hope we get to know him a bit better in the next book (more missing info).  So there are lots of positives that can be used to build upon this tale.  OHHH and I almost forgot to mention.  James Patterson did not write this alone.  He wrote it with Gabrielle Charbonnet...and the next one looks like he writes with a different co-author so that could make a huge difference!!! We shall see!

Happy Reading!

Brother Odd, Koontz

Very behind in my posts...sorry about that folks! I will have another one or two posts for you later this week as I'm trying to catch up. Yes, call me a slacker, go ahead! So many books, so little time, what can I say? I prefer reading the books to blogging about them. :)




I won't keep you long on this one. As you know I'm reading this series. But will be branching out from Koontz a bit so as to not bore you. I have a Patterson review coming up this week.

Brother Odd is your typical loveable character. With this book comes some really creepy new monsters that will make you think twice about walking in a snowstorm. Evil can envelope anyplace...even a Monastary and you cannot run from yourself and destiny. That's what I took away from this one. One loveable character leaves us in this book...but another one joins our hero...so I think it will be okay. Not my favorite Odd Thomas book but it was fun and there was a surprise or two in between those covers.

I give this one 3.5 stars as I was able to put it down...I wasn't able to put the others down...so this one was a different sort of a read.

One Door Away from Heaven, Koontz

This book is strange to say the least. I liked it...I won't say that I didn't like it...but it wasn't my favorite Koontz book by any means. There are numerous characters and chapter by chapter you are hearing about each of these different characters and eventually they all come together as you know they will as all of them become mobile. The problem is...there is at least one or two characters you forget about because you go 3/4 through the book without hearing about them again. By the time you get back to them...you are like 'oh yeah' that was from this book...hmmmmm. I also remembered certain parts like I had read this book before...so I think I did read it before but didn't remember how it ended or the details...so it wasn't memorable to me at all.

I'll give it three stars because you do want to know what happens in the end...so you keep reading but there are some unanswered questions and it does leave a bit to be desired in the end.

To Suzy Witten

Hi, Suzy,

I am going to be picking up your book this weekend...I hope it's at Barnes & Noble...if not, I'll try Amazon.com.

Thank you for letting me know about it. I am very interested in hearing your side of the tale...graphic is good in my opinion. The Titanic would not have been as effective of a movie if they didn't cause us to realize what those people who went down with the Ship went through. I think we need to 'feel' history in order to really appreciate it. Thank you so much for reading my blog and I'll post about your book as soon as I finish it!

Thank you!